January 15, 2015

More on Your Musers: Charise


Revisiting Soho apartment near NYU
Musing…
Trust your instinct to the end, though you can render no reason. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

“People think focus means saying yes to the thing you've got to focus on. But that's not what it means at all. It means saying no to the hundred other good ideas that there are. You have to pick carefully. I'm actually as proud of the things we haven't done as the things I have done. Innovation is saying no to 1,000 things.” ~ Steve Jobs 

Charise’s Turn:
To tag on to Kate’s post about saying “Yes!, let’s talk about also saying “No”. These words don’t necessarily contradict each other --  they help each other for sake of clarity. When you say yes to something, you’re saying no to something else; and when you say “no” you say “yes” to another choice or decision or desire. A very wise person once told me that “no” is a complete sentence. It doesn’t need to be followed by an explanation or defense. Know your “no”. That’s what matters. 

In 2015 I’m going the road of self-inquiry, to feel out opportunities and ideas to see if they fall into the “yes” or “no” category of where to put my attention. I have three forks in this road – dance/yoga, writing, and coaching. They stem, historically, from different professional pursuits: in dance therapy, in social work, in publishing. What has already emerged for me this month is a plan for a couple of movement based workshops in my local community. I’ll be drawing upon my learning from the graduate program in dance movement therapy at NYU as well as my yoga teaching practice over the last fifteen years. Yes! And “no” to excuses or distractions that interfere.

Get Fired Up: 
Practice saying "No" to the multitude of things that get in the way of your best "Yes" that moves you forward in your creative life. 



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