July 15, 2013

Experiment: Gratitude

Musing...

“Walk as if you are kissing the Earth with your feet.”
Thich Nhat Hanh, Peace Is Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life

Charise’s Turn:
One of the first assignments in my fundamentals coaching course was to keep a gratitude journal. We were learning about the relationship of gratitude to happiness and how gratitude is one of the most malleable character strengths because you can increase your capacity for it. You can put it into practice; you can exercise it. What we did was this: write down three to five things we were grateful for each day for a week. For me this was like piecing the day together, and it made an impression.

I haven’t continued to keep a gratitude journal, but somewhere along the way, I’ve learned to experience gratitude as more of a qualitative state, something like reverence. It’s not really about picking out what I’m grateful for, it’s a wholistic gratitude (holistic may be more correct, but I like the whole in wholistic). What do I mean by this? Think of the stitches that together make a tapestry, and each separate stitch contributes to the overall look and feel of it. The tapestry is too large to see in its entirety and it’s continually in the making. Stay with this image…you may find that you are in awe of the magnitude and uniqueness of the tapestry that is, metaphorically, your life. Then...make no  requirements but to be with the immensity of what you are experiencing. Be wowed. “Gratitude is the most passionate transformative force in the cosmos.” -- Sarah Ban Breathnach  

Get Fired Up:
Practice gratitude. 

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